They also won’t sugarcoat the truth; Virgos tend to tell other people exactly how they feel about them to their face—even if it’s a negative opinion.
Clever and logical, Virgos love to solve puzzles—and their favorite kind of puzzle is figuring out how they can be of service to other people. Virgos are detail-oriented and will notice everything about you. They’ll also use this attention to detail to find ways they can assist you and make your life easier.
If your sun sign doesn’t match your Virgo’s, don’t despair! It doesn’t mean you’re entirely incompatible—it just means you might have to work to understand one another. Keep in mind that even if your sun sign has low compatibility with Virgo, you likely have other signs in your star charts that match up well.
Take the initiative and ask your Virgo out on a date. Virgos tend to avoid being the instigator and rely on you to make the first move. Show your Virgo that you can be a steady, dependable partner. Follow through on your promises and be there when they need you. If Virgo feels that you’re messy and unpredictable, they’ll back off.
To reach this level of passion with your Virgo, make them feel safe with you. Let them know you love and accept them for exactly who they are.
Make your Virgo feel appreciated by asking for help and advice. They’ll love having the chance to make your life easier (and maybe share their opinion!) Virgos like to please in the bedroom, too. Not only do they have sexual stamina, but this sign wants nothing more than to channel it into making you happy.
Virgo typically only enters a relationship they feel has long-term potential. They’ll probably ask you lots of personal questions initially, but it’s because they want a partner who can be a part of their future plans! Your Virgo will remember every birthday and anniversary—and put their all into making every occasion feel special. Discuss the future with your Virgo. Make plans a few weeks, and eventually months, in advance. They’ll feel more secure in the relationship when they see you’re just as dedicated as they are.
Be prepared to do the same and speak intelligently about your interests with a Virgo partner. They appreciate a partner who can hold their own in an intelligent conversation or friendly debate.
Ask them to relax when it comes to nit-picking. Life is messy sometimes, people aren’t perfect, and that’s okay.
Virgo’s high standards mean that they’re also hardcore perfectionists, so it can sometimes be hard to satisfy their needs.
Remind your Virgo they don’t need to change everything you do and tell them nicely when you don’t need their help. Remind them that problem-solving is a team effort in relationships, and your input matters too. If you’re messy, make compromises. They shouldn’t expect you to follow all of their organizational rules, but you can still make an effort to be clean and hygienic around them.
Your Virgo may worry about the relationship and feel anxious or uncertain about where it’s heading. Try to be reassuring and let them know that you’re fully committed for the long haul. When Virgo gets caught up in their perfectionism, remind them that nobody is perfect. All they can do is their best.
Make small but significant changes, like encouraging your Virgo to try new food, a unique clothing style, or shift the furniture. Whisk them away on a spontaneous trip to have some fun and dial up the romance. Try something new in bed. Take the lead and show Virgo what to do; they’ll adjust in no time. Remind your Virgo to reach out for help and not always assume they have to solve everything alone.
Remember to say what you mean at all times around your Virgo, even if you’re negotiating boundaries or discussing a problem. Don’t play mind games with Virgo, as they prefer plain honesty and won’t appreciate it.
Because of their intuition, Virgos can usually tell when you’re lying. Be honest and sincere, telling them the truth at all times—even when it’s uncomfortable. Trust and honesty are important for Virgo; if you lie to them, they’ll be less inclined to give you a second chance, even over something small.
If you feel hurt or unfairly criticized by your Virgo’s words, tell them. They may not even realize they’ve offended you, as Virgos often think that they’re just being helpful when they critique someone. Ask your Virgo to talk things through rather than make assumptions about your feelings; remind them that you’re a team, not a problem to be solved by them alone.
Virgos are often workaholics! Plan activities to show them that downtime is essential. For example, go for walks in nature, or book a weekend away (with no technology allowed) to help your Virgo relax.
